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Speed Dating from a hosts perspective

Monday October 8, 2012

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A question I'm often asked when hosting speed dating events: Don't you ever get bored?

To be fair I've hosted over 300 Speed Dating events so the question shouldn't come as a surprise but I can honestly say that I don't. This is partly due to the fact such a wide range of people attend events. Who wouldn't want a job where you get to meet such a broad spectrum of professionals from all sorts of backgrounds?

The other reason is the sheer variety of events I host. I'm lucky enough to work for a very professional but relaxed company who know the value of variety. So for those of you who are curious as to what Original Dating do, or perhaps those who've attended an event but are looking for something different, here are my pick of events over the last year.

Ever popular Speed Date events run throughout the week so grab some friends, pick a date and venue and get booking:

Wednesday finds us in the opulent surrounds of the justifiably famous Mahiki near Green Park. Think rambunctious royals and celebrating celebrities.

Thursday we run two events. The ever-popular Exhibit in Balham boasts a private room, bar and bar staff, while for those North of the river Islington is the destination. XOXO is situated 2 minutes from Angel tube opposite Islington Green. Come early for some amazing Thai food or simply indulge yourselves in their stunning cocktails.

Friday is time to date in the city amidst the plush surrounds of Dion right next to St Paul's Cathedral. Again, we have a private room, bar and bar staff and, as if that wasn't enough, live blues, rock and jazz plays upstairs until late leaving with you with no excuse not to stick around.

Saturday finds us in the West End in the media hub of Fitzrovia. Black & Blue is the destination boasting a great wine list and the possibility of any cocktail you can imagine. And if you want to carry on after hours, the vibrant and welcoming London Cocktail Club is just 20 steps away.

The highlight of this year has to have been our Jubilee boat party. A 28C day, our regular band The Gremlins kicking out some awesome tunes, Speed Dating try out sessions on the lower deck and our unique lock and key ice breaker offering up fabulous prizes meant this was a classic boat party of which there will be many more. Not to mention the three massive jubilee themed cakes that lasted about thirty seconds.

For those wanting a less formal, more traditional bar like atmosphere we ran a number of increasingly popular Mid-Week Socials across London. No icebreaker, just 50-80 like-minded single professionals in venues such as Soho House, Mahiki and The Exhibit. I have to admit getting home a little late after more than one of these events after being asked to lead a bunch of guests onto further night time adventures.

And finally, we're looking to revive our very own Comedy Dating event, TFI Sundays. 80-100 singles dating in groups of ten for 10-15 mins, interspersed with some of the UK's finest comedy talent.

So that was the year so far, but don't worry we don't plan to sit on our laurels. We have a few surprises coming up in the next few month so make sure you're on our mailing list and keep checking the website. And if you have any ideas you think may work, drop us a line. Who knows, perhaps you could be responsible for the next big thing in dating.

So to conclude, no I don't get bored hosting these events. How could I?

JOHN DAVIS

Here's some great dating events we've got coming up soon!

Last few places!
Today
Tue 10 NOV

Leeds Speed Dating

Tue 10 Nov 2026

Box Leeds, Leeds, Yorkshire

Leeds busiest speed dating event! Grab your tickets now!

Tickets

£22

Age guide

30-45

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Today
Tue 10 NOV

Swindon Speed Dating

Tue 10 Nov 2026

Mackenzie's Bar and Kitchen, Swindon, Wiltshire

Swindon's newest speed dating event! Join us for a fun event at this fab venue!

Tickets

£22

Age guide

40-55

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Today
Tue 10 NOV

Speed Dating in Southampton

Tue 10 Nov 2026

1932 Bar, Southampton, Hampshire

Southampton's busiest Speed Dating event! Join us for a dating filled evening at a great venue!

Tickets

£22

Age guide

30-45

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Wed 11 NOV

Vegan & Vegetarian Speed Dating

Wed 11 Nov 2026

3 Locks, London, Camden

Meet singles who share your passion for vegan or veggie food at this cool spot in Camden.

Tickets

£18

Age guide

30-45

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Wed 11 NOV

Speed Dating Portsmouth

Wed 11 Nov 2026

The Monarch, Portsmouth, Hampshire

Portsmouth's busiest speed dating event. Meet up to 20 people!

Tickets

£22

Age guide

40-55

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2

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Wed 11 NOV

Speed Dating Harrogate

Wed 11 Nov 2026

The Barologist, Harrogate, Yorkshire

Harrogate's newest and busiest Speed Dating event. Grab your tickets now!

Tickets

£25

£22

Age guide

40-55

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2

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Wed 11 NOV

Bowling + Pizza Speed Dating Nottingham

Wed 11 Nov 2026

DiscoBowl, Nottingham

Nottingham's newest bowling + pizza speed dating event! Enjoy the perfect mix of Pizza, bowling a...

Tickets

£35

Age guide

30-45

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3

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2

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Wed 11 NOV

Speed Dating in Cambridge

Wed 11 Nov 2026

The Lab, Cambridge, Cambridgeshire

Join around 30 singles at this trendy Cambridge venue for a fun night meeting new people.

Tickets

£20

Age guide

25-38

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3

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Wed 11 NOV

Speed Dating in Birmingham

Wed 11 Nov 2026

Be At One - New Street, Birmingham

Join around 30 singles at this trendy Birmingham venue for a fun night meeting new people.

Tickets

£25

£20

Age guide

40-55

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3

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2

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Thu 12 NOV

Speed Dating in Clapham

Thu 12 Nov 2026

Hannah Battersea, London, Clapham Junction

You'll typically meet 15-18 people for our popular speed dating event at this cool venue in CJ.

Tickets

£20

Age guide

30-45

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Thu 12 NOV

Speed Dating in Oxford

Thu 12 Nov 2026

The Varsity Club, Oxford, Oxfordshire

Oxford's busiest speed dating event. 15-20 dates in one fun night at this fab venue.

Tickets

£20

Age guide

30-45

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3

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Thu 12 NOV

Speed Dating in Canterbury

Thu 12 Nov 2026

One Pound Lane, Canterbury, Kent

Canterbury's busiest speed dating event. Join us and meet new people in person.

Tickets

£25

Age guide

40-55

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Thu 12 NOV

Speed Dating Reading

Thu 12 Nov 2026

The Cocktail Club, Reading, Berkshire

Reading's busiest speed dating event. 15-20 dates in one night at this fab venue!

Tickets

£22

Age guide

40-55

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3

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Thu 12 NOV

Speed dating Milton Keynes

Thu 12 Nov 2026

Midsummer Tap, Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire

Milton Keynes newest speed dating event! Join us for a fun night at this fab venue!

Tickets

£22

Age guide

30-45

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2

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Thu 12 NOV

Speed dating in Plymouth

Thu 12 Nov 2026

Turtle Bay , Plymouth, Devon

Plymouth's busiest speed dating event. Meet up to 20 people!

Tickets

£22

Age guide

40-55

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Thu 12 NOV

Speed Dating Swansea

Thu 12 Nov 2026

Peppermint Bar, Swansea

Swansea's newest and busiest speed dating event! Book your ticket now before they sell out!

Tickets

£25

£22

Age guide

40-55

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3

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Thu 12 NOV

Speed Dating in Edinburgh

Thu 12 Nov 2026

Manahatta EDINBURGH, Edinburgh, Scotland

Edinburgh's best speed dating event at this incredible venue.

Tickets

£20

Age guide

40-55

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Thu 12 NOV

Guildford Speed Dating

Thu 12 Nov 2026

All Bar One, Guildford, Surrey

Guildford's newest speed dating event! Enjoy a fun night at this fab venue!

Tickets

£22

Age guide

40-55

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2

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2

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Sold out
Thu 12 NOV

Speed Dating in Maidstone

Thu 12 Nov 2026

Mu Mu, Maidstone, Kent

NEW - Join us for Maidstone's busiest speed dating event at this unique venue.

Tickets

£20

Age guide

40-55

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Thu 12 NOV

Early Christmas Singles Lock & Key Party - Bristol

Thu 12 Nov 2026

The Cocktail Club, Bristol

The Festive season is approaching, celebrate with us here and meet up to 80 local singles!

Tickets

£20

Age guide

30-45

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HOW IT WORKS

The beauty of Speed Dating lies in its no-nonsense approach. You take an equal number of single girls and guys, put them in a room and give them a few minutes to chat with every other member of the opposite sex.

When you get there

Original speed dating events in London normally begin at 7.30pm. You will need to register with our hosts and to begin with they will issue you with a score sheet. This will help you to keep track of the singles that you would like to meet again and perhaps go on a date with. After a short period of mingling, your host for the evening who will run through detailed instructions and give you your starting position if you are a guy or table for the event if you are a girl.

Meet & Mingle

A London speed dating event is split into two halves, each lasting around an hour, there will be an interval at half time of about 15 minutes for speed dating London. You will have between 4 and 5 minutes with each person, after which you need to tick a box on your score sheet - "yes, I would like to meet this person again" or "no. Thanks but no thanks". Or "friend" if you'd like to get to know them platonically. Make sure that you do this after each date to keep track. Afterwards there is an opportunity for everyone to meet and mingle informally - this is often where the real action begins, so make sure you don't disappear too quickly!

Complete your score sheet

After the event you simply tick who you liked on the Original Dating website and the site works about your matches automatically. If the dates you have ticked as a "yes" have reciprocated you have a match. You will be able to view the first names and message them via our site online without revealing your email address until you are ready to. You'll be having proper first dates in no time.